How To Date Younger Women - Seduction Secrets

Published: 15th January 2010
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The majority of men would rather be dating younger women. The reality is, as men, we're programmed to want to hook up with beautiful younger women -- and younger women are, in fact, hard-wired to prefer relationships with older men.

Most guys, however, are clueless about the actual process of how to meet and how to date younger women. The challenge for most men is that once they reach a certain age, they start to imagine they're simply too old, or not "cool" enough, to flirt with younger women and seduce them.

So let me share some tips with you about using body language to flirt, since this is extremely important when you are trying to build a sexual connection with a younger woman.

Normally, the process of meeting and seducing a woman starts with making eye contact. Making eye contact with her, and smiling, is one of the surest ways to exhibit confidence and establish a connection.

"The eyes are the window to the soul," as they say, and this manner of contact can be as influential as touch. Then, as the conversation begins and you keep it flowing in the right direction, you've got to begin escalating in a physical way.

Basically, this means you touch her and use flirtatious body language. Not in an aggressive way. In a very subtle, "invisible" way that she doesn't consciously notice.

But on a deeper subsconsious level, she will start to feel physically comfortable with you and your touch.

Picture the following scenario, which most guys have gone through:

You take a girl out on a date, and you have a pleasant time with her. It seems to be going fine. But in the back of your mind, you're wondering about how tonight is going to end.

When you drop her off at her house..or when you walk her out to her car...are you going to attempt to kiss her? Of course, you WANT that first kiss, but you might be worried that she will reject it...what if she's not ready for a kiss yet? What if she thinks you're moving "too fast?"

And so, most first dates end somewhat awkwardly -- with a handshake, a hug, or a quick kiss on the cheek. Of course, the guy wants more than that -- but he won't get it.

Or about this situation? You take a girl to the movies, and when you sit down, you want to put your arm around her... or snuggle up close to her...but you don't want her to feel weird or uncomfortable. So for the next two hours, you don't touch her... and the whole time, you are wishing that you could be.

The way to solve these challenges is to lay a foundation of body contact.

Every time you use the power of touch with a woman in the right way, it's a slow, natural progression -- but remember, you have to initiate it.

She'll feel "ready" to hold hands with her...give you the first kiss...and ultimately sleep with you...if you slowly ESCALATE and build body contact in a subtle way. Basically, you want her to feel comfortable with your touch. In a sense, you're using body language flirting to "warm her up"...

Now how do you accomplish this, exactly? Here are few body language flirting tips...

How To Date Younger Women, Tip #1: When one of you says something funny and you both start launghing, give her a high-five. Don't "slap" her hand the way you would do it with one of your pals. Put your hand up, and when she puts up hers, clasp it gently in your hand and intertwine your fingers with hers. Hold it for a couple of seconds before letting her hand go.

On a conscious level, she doesn't even really notice that you just made physical contact with her. But you did.

Likewise, when you want to emphasize something you are telling her, you can reach over and place your hand on her forearm, or on her hand, for a few seconds. This is just going to be a light touch. Then, slowly move your hand away.

How To Date Younger Women, Tip #2: If you're sitting down with her on a couch, instead of touching her hand,you can touch her knee for a moment. Maintain eye contact with her. She won't consciously think about you lightly touching her knee, because she is busy listening to what you are saying...but it will register with her.

How To Date Younger Women, Tip #3: Or, when you are holding the door open for her -- guiding her into the passenger seat in your car, or through the door to the restaurant or bar -- you simply place your hand on the small of her back (gently) and subtly guide her through the door.

See, her brain is picking up the message that you are a MASCULINE presence who is there to look out for her. She knows that she is with a man -- not a wussy "nervous guy" who is scared to make any physical contact with her.

You can increase the frequency and duration of your touches as the conversation continue to flow. Your touches can become more frequent and intimate.

Touch her hand and forearm a few times in the initital fifteen minutes, and after 30 minutes, it won't feel unnatural to hold her hand while you talk to her... A little later, you might reach and gently brush the hair out of her eyes...and this won't feel unnatural to her. She'll enjoy your touch, and she's actually start to miss it when you don't give it to her.

And it won't feel unnatural for you to lean in very close and speak softly in her ear when you have something "private" to tell her. This can really give a girl goose bumps... in a good way;)

These steps are laying the groundwork for you to kiss her. After I've done all the steps above, I like to give her a soft kiss on the cheek after I've just whispered something in her ear.

Then, I go back to our normal conversation. I don't make a "big deal" out of that kiss. It all feels like a comfortable, natural progression.

This is the essence of using body language and touch to build a sexual connection with a younger woman. Ultimately, you're going to make her feel comfortable being with you in every sense...but only if you lay this foundation.

Of course, this is just one of the components of learning how to date younger women and pull off a smooth seduction. The other big tactic with younger women you'll need to use is Strategic Conversation. This means knowing exactly what to say, which questions to ask, and how to guide the conversation down the right path...

But before we go any further, please heed this warning...

The tactics contained in our FREE, 75-page seduction manual are designed to make women feel attracted to you on a deep, subconscious level. These are extremely powerful methods, so please use them responsibly! If you want to learn the "secret arts" of pickup and seduction and how to date younger women with total confidence and skill, visit our site and download your free manual now. Click here for all of the secrets of dating younger women.

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