Five Things You Need To Know About Approaching Women

Published: 07th July 2010
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The thought of approaching a hot girl, and attempting to start a conversation, makes the average guy feel nervous and intimidated. If you want to know how to approach women without fear and hesitation holding you back, there are some techniques that you can use to make it easier on yourself. It's very important for you to handle this aspect of your "game" right away, because obviously you're not going to start sleeping with beautiful women -- or dating them -- until you've got the ability to approach them and get things started on the right foot.

One of the hang ups that a LOT of men seem to have, and it is quite common, is to have the fear of rejection from a woman. This sense of fear is what prevents most guys from even trying to walk up to a beautiful girl in a bar, or at the shopping mall, and initiating a conversation -- but really, this fear can be eliminated with some practice and understanding of the right approach tactics.

Here are 4 keys to approaching hot girls that should help you master this part of your life:

1. Breathe normal. When people get nervous, men and women, their breathing changes. This will trigger a "chain reaction" of sorts throughout your nervous system, and this is when you experience other symptoms of fear: sweaty palms, fidgeting, etc. (All of these indicators of nervousness are a BIG turn-off to women.) When you feel this way, there's no way you're going to be able to effectively approach a woman and start the interaction in a playful, confident manner. Calm yourself down and take deep, controlled breaths if you feel any nervousness -- this will stop that "chain reaction" from occuring, and put you in a relaxed state when you are approaching women.

2. Walk like an alpha male. So how, exactly, do alpha males walk? With relaxed, upright posture and a smooth stride. Basically, you never want to seem like you're in a hurry to meet women or make an impression on them. If you let your shoulders slump and your eyes hit the floor, you look like the kind of guy that lets life run over him. None of these things will make you seem attractive to the woman that you are going to approach.

3. Break the ice with a smile. Really, the best way to "preface" your approach is to lock eyes with her for a moment, smile, and hopefully get her to smile back. As long as she smiles back at you, this is your "green light" to approach and start the conversation. This also ensures that she won't be startled if you suddenly approach her out of nowhere.

4. Don't use a "line" to start the conversation; use an opener. Pickup lines are not effective because you're broadcasting the fact that you're sexually interested in her, before she knows anything about you. There are dozens of field-tested openers that you can use -- including Direct Openers, Indirect Openers, Situational Openers, and Opinion Openers -- which are are designed to make approaching women a fun, enjoyable activity instead of something that causes you fear and anxiety.
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